Is there a gap between how you-d like things to be and how they are?
Most likely there is, and it hurts. It may be a small gap or an enormous ravine, but that gap is the primary cause of pain and unhappiness for a lot of people.
What if you said -F**k It- to the idea of how your life should be and found peace with the way things are? That-s going to shake things up and take the edge off your pain and discomfort way more than any quick fix could.
But being at peace doesn-t necessarily mean being peaceful, and it certainly isn-t being passive; it means embracing life in all its colours.
Instead of constantly trying to change our lives, ourselves, or the world around us, just say -F**k It-. This is a radical message that can create radical shifts in your perception of life, just as it is.