When Longing Becomes Your Lover - What 40 Years as a Virgin Taught Me about Intimacy, Desire, and Feminism

From the author of the popular New York Times articles "Is It a Crush or Have You Fallen Into Limerence?" and "Does My Virginity Have a Shelf Life?", When Longing Becomes Your Lover is a complete tell-all about Amanda's dates, intimate encounters, and wrestling with cultural and Christian ideas of virginity, sex, and self-worth.